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Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Friendship :)

How about a little about friendship as well...while we are broading the subject of love and like<*wink>

A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

Never desert your friend at the timewhen he/she needs a friend the most.
Treasure every friendship NOW -------If u do, CALL them up every NOW and then

It takes 1 sec to see a person
It takes 1 min to introduce each other
It takes 1 hour to know each other
It takes 1 year or more to understand each other
And it takes 1 LIFETIME to be a FRIEND

Difference between Love and Like

Alike....yet totally different...starts from the feeling of like but grows into love. Ever wondered what is the difference between like and love?
Guess most of us did not really realize this....perhaps we can take a minute to read the following and decide whether it is really true to its extent...remember, LOVE is never clearly defined and there is NO right or wrong...a matter of perception :)

In front of the person you love your heart beats faster
But in front of the person you like you get happy.

In front of the person you love winter seems like spring
But in front of the person you like winter is just beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you love you blush
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like you smile.

In front of the person you love you can't say everything on your mind
But in front of the person you like you can.

In front of the person you love you tend to get shy
But in front of the person you like you can show your own self.

The person you love comes into your mind every 2 minutes

You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying you cry with them
But when the one you like is crying you end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eyeAnd the feeling of like starts from the ear.
So if you stop liking a person you used to like,All you need to do is cover your ears,But if you try to close your eyes,Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever after.

Meaningful and probably true for some of us....again, there's never a universal definition for the subject of love and like :)

Count your blessings...

Human are never satisfied with what they have....and yearn for more...when they start to have more, they demand the better. Once they have the better....they aim for only the BEST and will not settle for anything beside the BEST. By saying this, I do not mean you should be contented with everything and let go of your dreams and goals....it's good to always have expectations and aim for certain levels in life...BUT, complaints and moans about your current situation is not a solution. Furthermore, besides expecting...ever thought of appreciating as well?
Take a moment and think about it...other than going for those which you want to have, how about the ones which you already have...don't you think they are also valuable?
The following tells us how lucky we are today....

If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75% of this world.

If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million who will not survive this week.

If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish someplace, you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy.

If you can attend a religious meeting without fear of harassment, arrest, torture, or death, you are more blessed than three billion people in the world.

If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation,you are ahead of 500 million people in the world.

See...how lucky we are...there's always people out there who are in worse conditions than us.
So, what are you waiting for...be thankful for what you have and STOP complaining!! Hehe...

More about Love and Life...

A simple real-life example extracted from an email...rather meaningful and reflects directly on the contemporary perception of life and relationships...

When the bus come, you look at it and you said to yourself, "eeee... so full...cannot sit down one". So you said to yourself, "I'll wait for the next one." so you let the bus go and waited for the second bus.
Then the second bus came, you looked at it and you said, "eeee...this bus so old...surely very uncomfortable one." So you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.
After a while, another bus came. It's not crowded and not old but you said, "eeee... no air-con one...and the weather is so warm, better wait for the next one."
So again you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.
Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late. You panicked and jump on to the next on coming bus. It is not until much later that you found out that you had boarded on to the wrong bus!
So you wasted your time and money waiting for what you want! Even if an aircon bus came, can you ensure that the aircon bus won't break down or will the aircon be too cold for you?
So people...(mostly girls but guys too!) want to make sure that what you want is not wrong.
But it wouldn't hurt to give other people a chance, right? If you found that the "bus" doesn't suit, you just press the red button and get off the bus!
But wait...I am sure all of you have this experienced before. You saw a bus is coming (the bus you want of course) you flagged it and the driver acted blur by pretending not seeing you and zoomed pass you!
The bottom line of being loved is like waiting for a bus and whether you want to get on the bus and give the bus a chance depends totally on you and walking alone is just like being out of love.

If you love someone set him/her free. If he/she comes back to you, you know they're yours. If they don't then it was never meant to be.

Remember to always say what you mean.

If you love someone, tell. Don't be afraid to express yourself.

Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you. Because when you decide that it is the right time, it might be too late.
Seize the day. Never have regrets.
And most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today.

Friendship is never an accident. It is always the result of high intentions, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution. It represents the wise choice of many alternatives. And remember.... Keep Smiling....coz... "Of All Things You Wear, Your Smile Is As love returns to me, As I return to you, As love returns to us. I guess this is really wondeful and make a lot of sense. Happy Reading

22 ways to make a girl smile

Another forwarded message from my friend....
How to make a girl smile...guess it's not hard:)

1. Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous (not fine, or sexy)
2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if it's justfor a second.
3 . Kiss her lightly on the forehead/ neck.
4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
6 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
8 . Write her notes. (She'll love them )
9 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.
10 . Play with her hair.
11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.
12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
13 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.
14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16 . Give her piggyback rides.
17 . Bring her flowers
18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
21 . Kiss her in the rain.
22 . If you're in love with her . . . tell her.

What do GIRLS WANT...

Haha...this is another funny bit of information I received from a friend....what do girls really think.... Enjoy :)

1.Don`t tell us when you think other girls are hot.
2. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, don`t expect us to dress like Victoria Secret Models.
4. Mark anniversaries on the calendar.
5. We think about you all the time
6 This is how we see it : Don't call = Don't care.
7. Which also means that if we don`t call, take a hint.
8. We like you to be a little jealous. But overlypossesive is not necessary.
9. Being able to make us laugh is so much more important than knowing how much you can bench-press.
10. We're allowed to be late. You're not.
11. Eye contact is the key.
12. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
13. Laugh at our jokes.
14. 3 words: honesty, honesty, honesty!
15. Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers.
16. Do not start with us. You will not win.
17. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? Didn't think so.
18 If you ask nicely, we`ll answer the same way.
19. We will never have enough clothes or shoes.
20. We have an excuse for being bitchy at least once a month.
21 Open the door for us no matter where we are.
22. We love surprises.
23. We like to be kissed softly. Not with an iron tongue.
24. Pay attention to the little things we do,because they mean the most.
25. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs sometimes.Never tighty-whities!
26. Always brush your teeth before you see us. A fresh mouth and white teeth are a necessity.
27. Clean your room before we come over.
28. Even though you're sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
29. Don't act hard around your friends
30. Sometimes "NO" really means "NO!".
31. "Wife beaters" are not an adequate form of fashion.
32. If we wanted to be on video tape, we`d be a porn star. NOT your girlfriend.
33. Sensitive guys are great.. but crying more than we do ina movie just isn't right.
34. Don`t let ex-girlfriends cause drama,relationships are stressful enough.
35. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
36. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman.
37. "Fat chicks" have feelings, too.
38. Silent treatment, shoulder shrugs, tears,yelling, & nasty looks add up to = YOU DID SOMETHiNG WRONG.
39. The excuse "I can't dance" is unacceptable.We`ll appreciate the simple fact that you`re trying.
40. Just because a girl doesn`t pick up on the first ring, doesn`t mean she`s not waiting by the phone.
41. You don`t have to spend a lot; if it means a lot.
42. Don`t say you love me if you don`t mean it.
43. Don`t lie to us. We will catch you.
44. When the girls get together, we talk about everything. meaning, my best friends know
everything about you.

How to tell if it's LOVE

I received a forwarded email which I found worthy to be shared...perhaps we can all take a moment and ponder on the messages conveyed here:
Here goes...

If you love some one !

If you love some one because you think that he or she
is really gorgeous .... then it's not love .. it's
~* Infatuation *~

If you love some one because you think that
you shouldn't leave him because others think that you
shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's
~*Compromise *~

If you love some one because you have been
kissed by him ... then it's not love.. it's
~* Inferiority complex*~

If you love some one because you cannot leave
him thinking that it would hurt his feelings .. then
it's not love .. it's

If you love some one because you share every
thing with him ... then it's not love... it's

But if you feel the pain of the other person more than
him even when he is stable and you cry for him ...

If you get attracted to other people but stay with him
without any regrets... that's

If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he
doesn't want to ... that's